1. Be honest about your intentions – look guys, if you're simply looking for some ass then please stop allowing her to believe that you want may want more than that. It’s not cool and it is simply causing more damage and more dysfunction in the crazy world of relationships. I mean don’t get me wrong, I know when a woman says “if a guy just wants sex, then just say it and you might just get it” is such a setup. It was a great line some woman came up with to help weed out the guys who are just after sex. Understand though that there are much better ways to achieve your goals without having to lie or “play boyfriend”. If your “game” is that weak that you have to lie, then maybe you just don’t deserve any sex and you should consider donating your nuts to someplace where they can be put to use : ). I joke, I just want to acknowledge that this is what most men are after while helping you understand that I and the women of the world would like for you to take a better approach to getting it.
2. Learn how to be a man – attention momma’s boys and freeloading good for nothing men. This behavior of being dependent on a woman to take care of you and not knowing how to stand your own two feet is unacceptable and needs to stop immediately. You will never be able to properly take care of a woman in a way that she needs or desires if you have yet to learn how to take care of yourself. To be fair, some momma’s boys do know how to be men but if you don’t learn how to cut that umbilical cord now you will have major issues when you get married and you keep putting your mother over your wife (which in my opinion is not a good move at all). So freeloaders and men who are dependent on others, it is time to stand on your own merits and start being a real man. Your future girlfriend/wife is not going to be happy with some guy who can't take initiative to do anything for himself. She is not going to be happy carrying an extra burden in the relationship because she does not have a man she can count on. Yeah I know some of you are being taken care of by your woman, so you figure if it ain’t broke don’t fix it. Well guess what, it is broken, you just don’t see the cracks and dysfunction clearly. You keep it up and it will become painfully clear how broken it really was the entire time.
3. Try to understand women – yeah I know some of you think you’re a bunch of pimps who have the whole “women” thing down pact. Man you don’t have a clue, and that reality will eventually slap you in the face once in a serious relationship or marriage. So here is the deal, you can either wait till that time comes and try to learn on the fly or you can get started now and be ready for when that day comes. I’m not talking about tips and tricks to maneuvering through a woman’s mind and heart. I’m talking about a genuine attempt to understand women and the ways that many of them operate. You wouldn’t wait to the championship game before you raise your level of play, you would practice well in advance so that you have a shot to win that championship. Well it is the same thing here and if you’re smart you won’t waste another day waiting to prepare yourself.
There it is right there and I’m sure many women would agree with this list. There are other things I could list but let’s just focus on this for now, and you can learn more as you continue to come back to this great blog that will enlighten you and educate you on the many things you need to know. The man that takes heed to this message will be a few steps ahead of the other guys too prideful to take some good advice. If you’re a woman reading this, well pass it along. The more men we can get to start doing better, the more we can create a positive environment that benefits both men and women. It is a New Year, and it is time for a new approach.
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